"He came unto his own, and his own received him not." John
1:10 The film "Trains, Planes and Automobiles" demonstrates the
importance of having loved ones at the holidays. John Candy is a lonely
salesman who has no family and nowhere to go for Thanksgiving. So he latches
onto Steve Martin, who is stuck far from home due to a horrible weather
front. Martin has a wonderful family waiting for him--but no way to get
there. He has several credit cards in his pocket, but no wheels or decent
lodging available due to the emergency. As the title implies, he tries
every mode of transportation to reach his loved ones, but finds himself
shackled to his hapless fellow traveler, the person he loathes. Such is the irony of the holidays. We want family near. Relationships
are enjoyed and mourned. I am interested in, but no longer surprised by the sad anniversaries
people connect to the holidays. Many seem to measure tragedies by Christmas:
"Dad's last." "The last before our divorce." "Our
last in the house on Baker Street." And of course, old family squabbles are remembered each year because
some relatives choose to absent themselves for one hurt or another. Others
make the attempt to come home, yet for some reason unclear to them, get
the cold shoulder. This experience was shared by Jesus. The saddest Christmas story I have
ever heard is in John's prologue. "He came unto his own, and his
own received him not." There are many holiday circumstances that elude our control. Conflicts
of calendar or a shortage of cash can thwart our optimistic plans. However,
we can count on Jesus arriving on cue, each season. He arrives, suitcases
at his sides on the ground and arms extended in the form of a cross, ready
to greet us and move in. -Tim Mitchell |